When you lose [random non bike stuff]

Ms_Merida

So tell me ladies and gents and anything in between...
How does one cope when we lose something very dear to them - Ie
your partner leaves you
You can't find your lucky socks
You lose your ring in the toilet while wiping

[trying to keep this light hearted... I'm coming into the 3rd phase of my grieving process.. peace, calm and comtemplation.. i've already had yesterday which was utter devastation, feeling lost and generally just fukced up, today the anger, furstration and depression..]

Tell me what you've lost and how you dealt with it..


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I am a girl after all.. so of course this would have to be a girly thread!

46kgToDate

Sorry you lost it/ her/ him/ that.


I always feel good after a very long bike ride.

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Now 64.1 kg to date. (and its 94.9kg but who's counting)

artemidorus

bump

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"All that we see and seem is but a dream, within a dream..."

Ms_Merida

What's with all the bumping [& jumping]

classic1

A few people here are bumping legitimate threads above the spam.

Ms_Merida

"i never mind about the foreplays. I am an indian fellow, and we indian fellows we dont' worry about the foreplayings, we go straight to the bumping and jumping" - From the book Shantaram..

Aussie Steve

How do you lose your ring in the dunny? its easy to find your ring....it's the GUEST OF HONOUR FFS hahahahah gawd I'm funny !!!

seriously the other morning I was running late and couldnt find my HRM and spent 15 minutes looking for it. Pays to get your sh!t together the night before, hey

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I have never had a problem with Premature Ejac... it's my partners that had the problem

Aussie Steve

Oh, and a few years ago my partner and I split up... I had a weight problem- hers; 140 kgs of something which would make a Japanese fisherman salivate...
I am still single. I will only be happy with a girl who can understand exercise and not be afraid of it. So she was a huge loss....

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I have never had a problem with Premature Ejac... it's my partners that had the problem

bigmark99

The first time I couldnt find my lucky socks - I turned to drugs and alcohol ....., but now I have learnt to live without my lucky socks and now that I have done that I find that I have more lucky socks in my drawer.

velo711

Just keep walking on the path, it's the price of an education.

Ms_Merida

How can you be with someone and not love them for the whole.. not for what you want them to look like. And if she put it on while you were together.. did you actually encourage her and help her to lose it.. or just call her a fat ass?

Shallow Hal?

Aussie Steve

Well, she didn't like my cycling at all... in the mornings when I put on the lycra to ride to work she would look at me the way a normal wife would look at her hubby when he grabs his golf clubs... it was obviously something she despised.
Funnily enough, on the one day each week I drove to work,
I would get home only 8 mins earlier than riding... (43 ks)
It's not that I'm a time triallist like Michael Rogers, just that on the bike-path, I only got 3 sets of traffic lights !!
She must have thought when I drove, I stopped somewhere along the way just to make it seem that 2 wheels was same as 4, for commuting time.
Weekend rides were only a Saturday morn bunch ride- home by 10:30, never later.
I know of lots of guys who spend most of Saturday playing golf. Leaving Missus to ferry kids to soccer/footy and juggle grocery shopping as well. "What the hell, I bought her a nice big Pajero...that's my contribution!!" they say.
When I got home from the Saturday session, after a quick shower, we would spend the entire weekend together with the kids.

But with her weight problem, she had no understanding of the concept of exercise.

Am I shallow ? You can call it like you see it. If you think I am, I won't argue. You are perfectly entitled to your opinion.
But I won't bother looking for a lady, like I said, single and happy to stay that way.

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I have never had a problem with Premature Ejac... it's my partners that had the problem

Ms_Merida

So she has issues with you spending so much time away from her - I get that.. meaning i know people who are like that. I can understand if she put on weight and then it became an issue. was she always big?
Hey good on ya, if you're happy sunshine then y do u need someone, right?
For me I now don't have time to even think of my ex - and i guess now too.. not that he was fat, but i love cycling - my hours are work, cycle, study - and he's really not a fitness person.. i always wanted him to come with us.. just for a social ride but he passed.. so i understand how you found it difficult.

I guess what I was getting at was more - how i perceived - your post seeming very superficial and shallow.

Anyhoo.. the past is the past right!!!

Wattsy Rules

I don't know how to take this thread...you serious or just f***ing around???

What/who did you lose?